The Advantages of Games in Teaching Children

  A good game provides multiple learning opportunities for children. Selecting a quality game is the key to using recreational time as a learning experience. The game, according to Rheta DeVries for the University of Northern Iowa, should be challenging enough to hold the child's interest, but no so challenging that the parent must constantly explain the process to the child. Participate in the game, rather than supervise, to model good behavior.

Improve Communication Skills

   Game playing requires that children interact with each other. The back and forth listening and speaking strengthens communication skills. They will hone negotiation skills as they take turns and discuss rules. Resist the urge to step in and explain the rules or interrupt because you know what your child is going to say. Let him explain, ask or give directions in his own time and his own way. This strengthens communication skills and helps him build confidence in his speaking ability.

Stimulate Intellectual Development

   It depends on the game, but most require reasoning, logic or planning. Working on these skills in the game environment allows your child to build important skills that will be beneficial as he becomes older. Don't be too quick to help your child if they are stumped. Let her try to figure it out on her own, and, if she still has trouble, give her small hints rather than telling her exactly where to move her game piece or whether she should jump your checker.

Develop Motor Skills

   Games such as Simon Says and Twister develop gross motor skills and improve balance and flexibility. Board games and games that use dice require dexterity and improve fine motor skills. These skills are often neglected because of the time spent sitting in the classroom or in front of the television. Your child may be frustrated that she can't keep a hula hoop or jump rope going, but encourage him to keep trying. This can also be an excellent lesson in the value of hard work.

Learn Sense of Fair Play

   Games have winners and losers, and playing games teaches your child both how to lose graciously and win without gloating. Don't let your child win in every game she plays with you. Not only does this create a child who doesn't know how to lose, it cheapens the thrill of victory for her as well. Whether you win or lose, congratulate her on a good game. Don't gloat or pout, even in a joking manner.

Expand Imagination

   Once your child becomes comfortable playing with game pieces, encourage him to develop his own game. Explain the need to determine an objective and rules. Once he develops the game, play the game, encouraging him to explain and refine the rules as you go.

source: http://www.livestrong.com/article/242571-the-advantages-of-games-in-teaching-children/#ixzz0zo5GgHZ6